used on battered women. >> the whole piece, the idea is that if we were just more subservient, more likable and willing to accept our gender roam as second class citizens to men, then more marriable men would come out of the wood work. >> right. >> i would argue that i don't want to marry a man who doesn't appreciate a strong, intelligent women. >> yeah. >> i think that's what's happening. it is not my responsibility for you to get your act together. >> right. >> that's the whole idea behind the article, is is that the reason why there aren't as many good men is because women are making it very hard for them to be responsible or respectful or ambitious or, i don't know, motivated. >> whatever, i'll be up here on the couch. >> exactly. >> you will be playing the role of the knee ander that will all morning. >> maybe the traditional role has shifted but it doesn't mean it's my fault that you can't keep up! >> exactly. you should learn not to compete with me. i always win. >> you should learn not to compete with me! i always win. >> you didn't get up this early to compromise. shut up!